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Goals
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Exercise
#1: Write down where you want to be in 1 month, 3 months,
1 year, 2 years, 5 years, 10 years, and 20 years. Be specific.
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In order to market effectively you need to be as specific as
possible in who you are, what you want and how you are going
to get there. If you know precisely, what you want and by when,
you know what actions steps to take, and then it is just a matter
of time. Success becomes inevitable.
Remember
what you focus on is what you get. If you focus on not spilling
something on your white shirt, you will most likely spill something
on your white shirt. If one of your goals is "I don't want
to be non-union anymore", well that goal is just reinforcing
where you already are. Create in the positive and in the present
tense. Focus on what you want, not what you don't want.
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#2: Write down everything you want to be, do and have.
Do it one at a time and allot 10 minutes for each one. Write
the entire time, no stopping, and break your own boundaries!
Think big and have fun. |
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As actors many of us get tunnel vision, and it becomes all about
our career. We will say in 6 months I want to be on Law &
Order, and in 2 years I will be on Broadway and in 5 years I
will have a contract role on a soap. All of that is wonderful,
we want to be focused and specific, that is what the first exercise
is all about. But what about everything else? What about life?
What about nourishing your soul? What do you want to be, and
do and have? I want to have a sailboat. I want to travel to
Italy for two months. I want to be written about in theatre
History books. I want to learn French. I want to be a mom. I
want a Badgley Mischka dress. It is important to think big and
discover what are things that you would love to be, do and have.
Honor these parts of yourself.
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#3: Create your Definite Major Purpose in Life. Read it
everyday. Carry it with you everyday. |
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Once you write down your goals and all that you want to be,
do, and have, it is time to create your declaration, or your
definiteness of purpose in life as Napoleon Hill says in THINK
AND GROW RICH.
"Definiteness of purpose is the point from which one must
begin. It is the knowledge of what one wants, and a burning
desire to possess it. Knowing what you want is the first and,
perhaps, the most important step towards the development of
persistence. A strong motive forces you to surmount many difficulties."
It should be a statement that reflects what you want to achieve
in your life and what you are going to give back to your fellow
peers, your community, and even the world. " It is a powerful
statement, no longer than a page, that will fuel your desire
and keep you on track of your purpose in life. Click
here to read Jodie's.
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#4: Pick 3 or 4 goals and create action steps to hit your
goals. Keep them organized and follow through with all your
actions. Remember to date everything! |
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Look at your goals and pick 3 or 4 that you want to focus on
now. Anymore than that will be a bit overwhelming to focus on.
Work backwards. What actions do you have to take to achieve
them? Daily, weekly, monthly, break it down as small as possible
and be specific. Date everything. Setting a date to your goals
is very powerful. For a few years I wanted my Equity card and
it just wasn't happening. Finally I said by June 10th I would
get my card. As March approached I got nervous, but I stuck
to my intention and kept following my daily and weekly actions.
I didn't know how it was going to happen, but I knew it would.
The middle of March I booked an Off-Broadway show. It works.
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#5: Create your vision board. Have fun and be creative.
Manifest what you want. |
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Once you have done all the background work, I highly urge you
to do this exercise. I procrastinated on this one for a while,
but when I finally did it, it made all the difference. Create
a vision board. Spend some time with google images and find
photos that represent your goals and make a collage of everything
you currently want to achieve and be and do and have. Keep it
in a prominent place where you will always see it. I even took
a picture of my vision board and made it my screen saver, and
it is on the cover of my music book. I see it all the time.
Visual is memorable. It is a great reminder to keep you on track.
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#6: Create your list of Daily Declarations. Pick 10 and
say them aloud everyday. Change them every month. |
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Many of us don't realize how many negative thoughts go through
our minds in a day. Unfortunately, most of them are geared towards
ourselves. We are our own worst critics. But what if you flipped
that around? Instead of telling yourself your stupid because
you forgot to mail that headshot out. What if you told yourself
every morning - "I am a brilliant business person with
my acting career" or "I approach my auditions with
confidence and ease" or 'I am an excellent manager of my
money." Daily Declarations are a powerful tool. If you
tell yourself something long enough your unconscious mind will
eventually believe it is true. It is the unconscious mind that
we must tap into.
There is a software program you can download directly on your
computer, and it is wonderful. The software flashes subliminal
message on your computer and comes preprogrammed for many different
needs, i.e. losing weight, self esteem booster, release your
past. You can click on the category you want or you can create
your own messages to flash. How nice to be told everyday while
you check your email--"You are a Broadway star"; "You
always book jobs easily." "Your cold reading skills
are incredible!". Click
here to learn more about Subliminal Power.
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"There
is nothing either good or bad, only thinking makes it so."-Hamlet
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